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by **TheNewMrs** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 5:38 pm

Woooooow!!! A bit TMI I know, but hey!

Just wondering if you are or not and if so how often?
I am 32 wks now, with SPD and I have to say its getting VERY uncomfortable..... :oops:

by **pebbles** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 6:05 pm

wish i could! OH not home for 7 more days! :doingthedeed

frind of mine had that SPD..she was in bits!

by **excitedmama** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:36 pm

I was having sex till last morning before I went to hospital!!! And thank God it's been long six weeks after the baby

it can be very uncomfortable just find positions that works for you!!

by **excitedmama** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:39 pm

Sorry what is SPD? :oops:

by **babymakes3** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:54 pm

Its Symphis Pubis Dysfunction hun - and super uncomfortable! Have it at the minute myself and NO sex at all for me. Baby's head is engaged, I'm waddling like a duck and hubby is afraid he'll hurt the baby esp now the head is engaged :lol:

Also, for some reason, any time we try to DTD baby decides to have a party in my uterus and it freaks hubby out in a big way :lol:

Honestly, I don't want it right now - cuddles are doing it for me WAY more than sex! Although have mentioned it to hubby, if I go over I'll be wanting sex to bring myself on so he might need to get over his phobia :lol:

by **babyL** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 4:42 am

You lucky lucky girls been able to at all ive had none since babs started kicking ahhhhhhhhhhhh! My wonderful h2b is a weirdo

he just won't/can't all he can think of is his little son under my skin and it freaks him out! We have tried and tried and when we even get close to it babs will give a kick or move and h2b freaks out and stops! Drives me mad! But it's all in his head and he just cant!! So there has been no sex for ages and I'm not happy at all but what can I do!

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by **MarcsMrs** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 11:59 am

BabyL you are not alone.....my darling hubby is completely freaked out about the thoughts of having sex now that little missy is kicking all the time! I think once he found out she was a girl it really put him off! Its driving me mental but sure I cant force him to have sex!!

by **Rathmineslady** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 2:34 pm

In the same boat here girlies. Since baby starting kicking, hubby has been totally put off having sex. Am getting plenty of back rubs and kisses and cuddles, but that's about it. Just couldn't get into a comfortable position when we tried, and belly now too big and moving around, i don't want to completely freak hubby out. We are making up for it though just doing nice things together. Organising a spa day for us before baby arrives is the next thing, plenty of pampering and quality time together.

by **Bonnie** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:06 pm

Well I'm 1 week overdue today and we are most definately still having sex! Midwife said as long as it's not painful it can only help hurry things along (hopefully!) ... I'd try anything at this stage :doingthedeed

by **babyL** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:20 pm

Well thank god I'm not the only deprived mum2be! I've tried even guilt tripping him and nope not a chance! Ah sure the babs is worth it

by **pebbles** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:21 pm

i had very little interest in the first trimester cos i was afraid to even move. but now i seem to be MUCH more interested. if only my boy was home! 6 more days to go! :doingthedeed

by **Torrach** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:30 pm

Ah girls, you poor things! Obviously I know I'm not pg yet but I can imagine OH being the type to freak out as well! I can kind of see where they are coming from though but as long as I was getting loads of kisses and cuddles and treats, I'd be happy out. I'd nearly settle for that now and I'm ttc!! :lol:

by **babyL** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:30 pm

I'm always interested thats my problem lol!!!

by **lovemylilbean** » Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:40 pm

we didnt coz of the previous mc n was afraid to do anything until now really its his birthday nxt week, lol must make sure im half decent when i jump on him haahahaha :lol: