im just feckin livid here. ive always done my best to get on with my OH's mother, i'd ring her and all, even drove the 3.5 hrs to visit her when Oh is away and she's made me feel really horrible now. im in tears here at the thought of it. we told her about the babs the night i had the bleeding and then i hadnt seen her til this weekend. on friday night she barely asked when i was due n when i showed her the scan photo she just made an offhand remark like "oh i can never make those things out" so i just let it go. on sat then my OH's brother, girlfriend and little girl came down, she basically ignored me all day an just chatted to the girlfriend who she goes out for cigarettes n all with.i get on well witht he other girl and we've both noticed this. by the evening i was feeling really uncomfortable and upset n i said it to my OH and he admitted he had noticed too. we were going out that night n leaving early next morn so just let it go. sometime over the weeknd i was laughing bout how we were all filling up the house and when baby comes we'll be totally full, my OH has a little site next door to her house and i joked we should put a little mobile home in there and come down for our holidays!!
so tonight was chatting to OH on skype there and he asked
had i said to his mother that we were putting a mobile on the siteshe ate the head off him for me even mentioning it. she could have said to me at the weekend when i joked about it that she'd hate that but no..she simmered away for 5 days and waited til he rang from abroad to have a go.
im in bits here. i dunno what ive done to so upset her and i honestly dont think i can ever go and stay in her house again without feling really uncomfortable. trouble is its 3.5 hours away so its not as if i can go down and come back in one day.
i dunno, maybe im just hormonal but ive always done my best.
thank god shes far away!
