January / February 2020 babies

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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Cherrycola » Thu Oct 31, 2019 1:32 pm

Flipper I’m devastated for you. I just can’t believe it.
Please stay in touch with us. Sending you all my love.
It’s your sons birthday today isn’t it? God love you.
I’m just so angry this has happened to you. You’re such a dote and you’ve been through enough for God’s sake. Sending you the biggest virtual hug I can. xxx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Flipper23 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 2:08 pm

Thanks so much girls. We just feel so numb and scared of what the next 24/48 hours has in store.

Yeah Cherry my little man is 1 Today. I was admitted yesterday as my blood pressure was sky high. Exactly 1 year to the day I was admitted to be induced with my son. Just crushing, I remember pacing the corridors trying to bring on labour and seeing the end of life sign on someone’s door and feeling sick to my stomach for them. Exactly one year later I was in that exact room with that horrific sign on the door. Our son will get us through
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 2:20 pm

Flipper that's just horrible and cruel timing. You are being so strong I think your incredible. Many women would fall to pieces. I can't stop thinking about you and I will be tomorrow aswell, I wish so much you didn't have to go through this but I hope the hospital are giving you lots of support to make the memories you need to. Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby mrsmc2017 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 4:52 pm

Flipper I cannot believe what I’m reading! I’m so so sorry for your loss. I wish I could say more but I really don’t know what to say only send you all my love and will be thinking of you and your family Friday xx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Cherrycola » Thu Oct 31, 2019 4:54 pm

Oh Flipper honey, just cry, bitch and moan here, whatever you want girl. You’ve been dealt a rough hand. Whatever you’re feeling.. scared, angry.. we are here if you need to vent my love.
Are you getting advice? Your head must be in a whirl. I know there is a alittlelifetime.ie and maybe the girls here know more but please reach out and talk to those who can give you advice to get you through the coming days and maybe help you with your preferences.xx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Cherrycola » Sat Nov 02, 2019 12:02 am

Thinking of you all day Flipper xxx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby morphett » Sat Nov 02, 2019 9:54 am

Flipper, am so so sorry to read your post, have sent you a pm, unfortunately I know the pain of losing your child all too well and am so sorry this has happened to your little girl and your family. Thinking of you at this difficult time...xxx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby BabyBC1 » Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:52 pm

Flipper I'm so sorry to be reading this, I'm devastated for you!life is really not fair. Your beautiful son will keep you both going. Thinking of you all
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Flipper23 » Thu Nov 07, 2019 9:38 am

Sorry I haven’t been on girls. Every time I go to write it I just don’t know what to say.

Friday didn’t go well for us. Pains started around 6 and I started to bleed heavily. I was passing really large clots which I kept thinking were the baby as they were that big.

I had to go to delivery and have an epidural. She was delivered around 4.15am and was perfect but just so small. It looked as though she had died a week or more ago. We had a lovely 45 mins with her, just the three of us. We laughed, cried, chatted to her. Then the bleeding wouldn’t stop and they couldn’t get my placenta.

I was rushed to theatre and my consultant called in, I had lost 2.5L of blood and needed a transfusion. Thankfully they didn’t need to operate. It was really traumatic.

I didn’t see Ana again until the next day.

We are getting ready this morning got a short blessing for her in the hospital. Feel sick with nerves
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Nov 07, 2019 11:13 am

Tearing up reading this Flipper. I cant express how sorry I am for everything you & dh are going through. Have been thinking about you a lot. Ana is a beautiful name. Take care hun xxx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby MrsA » Thu Nov 07, 2019 11:42 am

I’m so sorry Flipper. I’m just so sorry this happened. Thinking of you all so much XX
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby LorraineG » Thu Nov 07, 2019 11:44 am

Flipper there really is nothing I can say...just want you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers. Xx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Cherrycola » Thu Nov 07, 2019 5:06 pm

Flipper my heart is broken for you and your family. Sending you massive hugs. XX
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Nov 07, 2019 7:03 pm

Flipper I've been trying to think of something to say but I'm struggling to summon the words. It's just devastating and I'm heartbroken for you and dh. You have been on my mind so much lately I wish i could find some consoling words for you. X
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby brownie » Thu Nov 07, 2019 10:39 pm

Flipper, my heart is breaking for you and your husband, Ana sounds beautiful,I am so sorry you have had to endure these last few days, thank God you are ok after the complications, sounds like a frightening experience all round xxx. Will be keeping you both in my thoughts.
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby mrsmc2017 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 7:37 pm

Flipper you are never far from my thoughts. You are incredibly courageous as is your husband. Ana sounds so beautiful and so loved. I will remember her with a little candle this weekend. I wish I could find words - the right ones - but there are no words really only that I’m sorry for your loss and I hope little Ted continues to be some comfort to you in the days and weeks ahead x
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Anne1984 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 8:32 pm

Flipper I am so sorry for your loss. Ana is a beautiful name for your little angel. Thinking of you and your husband xx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby Southmama » Sun Nov 10, 2019 8:55 pm

Flipper i am only seeing this now. I was on the October 2018 page with you and you were a big support to me when i had to get the harmony test.
I am so sorry for your loss. Ana is such a lovely name.
It is a very cruel world.
Ye are in my thoughts xx
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Re: January / February 2020 babies

Postby mrsbb » Tue Nov 12, 2019 5:18 pm

Flipper pet....what an unspeakable and cruel tragedy. If wishing could make it not so I would wish all the hours of the day for you. You didn't deserve this. I am so very very sorry for your loss and your heartbreak. xxxx
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