Longer term ttc #1

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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Wed Feb 13, 2019 11:40 pm

Michelle I'm so sorry to read that...how many dpo are you past the transfer? Any chance it might be too early?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby LorraineG » Thu Feb 14, 2019 12:00 am

Aw Michelle I'm so so sorry to see that...i was so hoping it would be different for you this time :( I hope what I said didn't push you to test if you werent ready but i just remembered what you said from last time. I remember thinking it was so unfair. I'm so so sorry again. Mind yourself x
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Michelle81 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 12:00 am

Thanks girls. Mrsbb and dotty it's 8 days after transfer so I'm afraid that would just be wishful thinking. Don't know what all the niggles and twinges were about but anyway it is what is now.
Sarah it's good that you have a date for your consultation and I hope things move along for you now. It's a really hard thing to go through so look after yourself.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 12:20 am

Michelle when was ur beta test? It's so unfair you have to go through this again. Take some time and be nice to yourself. We're all here if u need us xx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsA » Thu Feb 14, 2019 1:00 am

Oh Michelle I’m sorry xxx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dreambaby » Thu Feb 14, 2019 8:49 am

Hi Girls, catching up on everyone’s news. Delighted things are progressing for you Bailey. Sorry To hear your news Sarah. At least you have a frostie left and hopefully have a plan soon. Not easy though. AFM, I got polyp removed on Monday and started pill the wknd. The plan is to reduce menopur to same as cycle I had one blastocyst to see if that improves quality. We are going to transfer 3 on day 3 if we have them. I’m scared but excited.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:59 am

Thanks Dream, i know im lucky to have a frostie. Hopefully get it back inside me as quick as possible! Fantastic you are moving into another cycle. And reducing the menopur sounds like a good idea especially if thats the cycle that got you your blast. And 3 on day 3 sounds like a good idea! You sound positive which is great! Are u on the pill so for about 2 weeks & then start the buserelin?

Michelle have been thinking of you. Its so crap. Hope your ok xxx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Michelle81 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 10:06 am

Sounds like a good plan dreambaby and you sound positive and excited which is a great way to be. How ling will you be on the pill?
Dotty my otd is Sunday and I've to ring the clinic on Monday then. I didn't even get upset this time don't know why.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby LorraineG » Thu Feb 14, 2019 10:25 am

That sounds like a good plan dream...glad you're moving forward again! Michelle I think it's a self-preservation thing. And there's no right or wrong way to feel. I think second time is just so different...will you ring the clinic and let them know?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 10:26 am

I can understand that too Michelle your probably feeling numb right now. Some times that can be a self preservation thing. But its still a really crap thing to get a negative result. Do you think there is any hope? I did read before that frosties can be a bit slower to get started and can result in later bfp. I know you dont want false hope and i get that too. But you were only 8 days past transfer yesterday?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Michelle81 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 10:58 am

Thanks Lorraine and Sarah. I think numb might be a good word to describe it right now. Yeh Sarah 8 days yesterday but it was a day 6 embryo. Tested again this morn to make sure and stark white. Pretty sure they'd would be something tgere by now. Might wait until tmrw to ring the clinic Lorraine as they prob won't be too impressed that I tested so early.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby LorraineG » Thu Feb 14, 2019 11:18 am

Michelle they know well that we test early. When I was talking to the nurse at transfer she just laughed when I mentioned it was a possibility and she said that there was no way she could wait herself. Will you stay on the progesterone etc til otd? Do you have a beta anyway? I'm so sorry you're going through this again. We're here for you.
And for you Sarah...how are you feeling today? Any sign of af yet? Get lots of nice painkillers and chocolate in. Thinking of you x
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 11:43 am

Ya Michelle im sure they know fine well we all test early. I wouldnt worry about that. Again im so so sorry. Xx

Thanks Lorraine i woke up this morning and it had started. In work now but finish at 1 so will have a couch day. I just want to move ahead and for this part to be over. Im anxious to start again asap!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby mrsbb » Thu Feb 14, 2019 11:47 am

Michelle, I'm so genuinely sorry. It's just so bloody unfair. Mind yourself and like Lorraine said, we're all here for you. xx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 11:51 am

It's a total feeling of numbness Michelle....so much meds and weeks of prep and then all over in a instant. I felt a bit like that and thought I was ok and then it hit me a few days later. Allow yourself to feel whatever whenever you want. X
Sarah mine took a day or 2 to start properly, hope it doesn't keep you waiting too long- if that doesn't sound awful!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Baileybee » Thu Feb 14, 2019 1:31 pm

Dream great to have u back with a plan... hope this does the trick for u...

Michelle sounds like you’re dealing with it so well, look after yourself! U know where we are if u need to talk...

Sarah have u had any cramping or anything yet? Hope u can move on from all of this soon x
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 1:48 pm

Dotty, Bailey, started this morning and coming on a bit now. Just want it over & done with now! X
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 2:17 pm

That's good it's started Sarah, I was the same just wanted it over with and move in. It's still tough tho and all those meds and hormones it's rough on you. Mind urself.
Dream great you have a plan in place, hopefully it does the trick for you.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Baileybee » Thu Feb 14, 2019 2:42 pm

Sarah I’m so glad, at least you can put it behind you physically, once u know it hasn’t worked it’s horrible being in limbo xxx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 5:41 pm

Just saw in the paper sile seoige talking about a missed miscarriage....Just thought it was brilliant to have celebs bringing this stuff up and making it ok to talk about. We all struggle I think in 'real life' to talk about stuff and I think anyone who is brave enough to tell their story to help others is wonderful. Just wanted to share that!!!
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