Longer term ttc #1

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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Fri Oct 22, 2021 10:20 am

Thanks so much ladies,I know there is some chance it will implant but I think its realistic to know it definitely has a lesser chance...but I need to try be less negative about it and try stop comparing to last time!!

MrsA I'm home tonight, at the airport now x

MrsAmy thanks, yes everything im seeing online (can't help myself mrsA lol!) does say anything under 20% or 25% still has a chance...but ill be honest I'm already thinking of the next trip over!! I always need a back up plan to keep me sane lol! X
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MeanderGo » Fri Oct 22, 2021 3:35 pm

Sarah so sorry there's so much extra stress involved. It's so unfair. I'm with MrsAmy about the odds - they're definitely not the worst and you never know what results you're going to get until you get them! But I'd also be like you and would be held way through booking my backup plan already, just to help with the possible negative. Aw hon, sending you all the positive vibes. Hope the next few days aren't tortuous xx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Fri Oct 22, 2021 4:09 pm

I'm sorry your feeling down about it sarah- it's so so hard not to compare- especially when you have had success with a certain grade etc. You still have a great chance- I think if it's good enough to transfer or freeze then its good enough to be a baby. Like you I always like to have a plan b, just helps me to keep sane too. So whatever works to get through the next while
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Sat Oct 23, 2021 8:39 pm

Thanks Meander & Dotty, just happy to be home now and just trying to switch off but we all know hard that is! Iv decided anyway if this doesn't work out I'm going to enjoy Christmas etc, and go back in Feb. That gives me the time to sort myself out, improve my diet and more supplements etc. 3-4 months of that and ill at least feel more positive that iv been proactive!

Thanks again ye are the best all of
ye xxx
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsAmy » Sun Oct 24, 2021 11:17 am

How are you feeling Sarah? Did you get home OK?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Mon Oct 25, 2021 10:12 am

All good MrsAmy thanks! Just counting down the days to test...ill prob test Saturday, very early i know but if its positive I'm fairly sure there would be a faint line by then...it would be the equilivant of 12dpo.
Not long for you to transfer, do you know when?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsAmy » Mon Oct 25, 2021 11:01 am

Everything crossed for Saturday for you so! Not too sure. I've a scan Thursday and either another scan the following week or transfer 5-6 days later, so hopefully this day week/tomorrow week.
I've found this but the longest of the whole lot tbh. It's really dragged.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Tue Oct 26, 2021 5:16 pm

Nearly there now MrsAmy for your scan...transfer is just around the corner for you xx the waiting around is just torturous...its like your waiting for this result that result, always waiting!!!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsAmy » Tue Oct 26, 2021 9:32 pm

That's exactly it. I'm fed up of waiting around... It colours everything. If it's not gonna work I wanna know and move on. And vice versa, if we're lucky.
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby LorraineG » Thu Oct 28, 2021 8:39 am

Sarah how you holding up?
Mrsamy and dotty hope ye're not driven too demented waiting!
Hows everyone else doing?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 9:47 am

Good luck with the scan today mrsamy!
Sarah hope your surviving the week and feeling OK.

I'm in for scan on Tuesday and hipddully transfer the week after. I've had horrible headaches on the fematab this time, think I had a migraine yesterday it was horrendous. Feeling very groggy today now.
Mrsa how are you getting on?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 2:02 pm

Ugh not holding up great!! No real symptoms and I remember twinges and pulling with luke which was prob implantation, so the lack of those symptoms has me so negative...7dp3dt so basically 10dpo today...and my cheapie tests came in the post this morning and of course dope here with no willpower tests...I would call it a bfn. I thought I could see the most questionable shadow of a line but honestly I dont think its really there!!

I hate this!!!!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 4:23 pm

We would all do the test aswell sarah your not alone. Were they frer tests? I wouldn't trust anything else that early. It is still early! So hard not to compare aswell. Will you try to wait 48hrs or do another tomorrow?
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:11 pm

Thanks Dotty xx No they are the internet cheapies...ah sure no point fooling myself, ill definitely test tomorrow!! Literally no willpower...managed to hold off until 9dp3dt with Luke and got a good line on a frer. Kicking myself for starting this now cos I can't stop lol!!!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsAmy » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:36 pm

Scan was good, lining was between 8 and 10,depending on where she measured and had the triple layer so am booked in tomorrow week for transfer. Sort of hoped it would be towards the start of the week, not the end, but ;-) I should know by now really not to get my hopes up about the timing of ANYTHING! :-P

Either way, finally, finally making progress. Nearly there.

Aww Sarah, a squinter on a cheapie is still super! Think they're 25 hcg,and frer are 10 so if there is a shadow, that would probably be a proper line on a frer. Will you test again in the morning or wait til sat?

So exciting Dotty, haha we really will be in the tww together so!!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:36 pm

Well they definitely won't show up yet!!! Last month with my fet I checked back on my photos from Freya- yes I still have them cos I'm a psychopath- and it was 12dpo in the evening before I got asquinter on an ic. So your still well in the game.
Don't beat yourself up, we would all be doing exactly the same thing. The mental torture of the tests is just awful
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Dotty37 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:42 pm

Thats great mrsamy! I posted at the same time so just saw your update now. They want over 7 at this stage so thats fab. Roll on next week for you! I'm in Tuesday so hopefully the tuesday/wed the following week all being well!
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby MrsAmy » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:50 pm

Thanks so much Dotty, here's hoping anyway!! I've a feeling the next week is gonna be the slowest of them all! :-D

You'll only be a couple of days behind me so. :-) we can whinge together during tww. :-P
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby LorraineG » Thu Oct 28, 2021 5:58 pm

Oh Sarah its torture but theres not a single one of us that wouldn't have tested the minute the post arrived!! Def too early for ic tests fingers crossed for you over the next few days xx
Dotty...I still have the actual tests never mind the photos! And yes I did compare them (almost 2years later) to my tests this time!! The things fertility issues make you do!!
Delighted you are on track for next week mrsamy...he waiting is horrendous but it will be worth it x
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Re: Longer term ttc #1

Postby Sarah83 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 7:12 pm

Ah that's fab MrsAmy, nearly there now, delighted for you xx

Thanks ladies...I know its so hard not test...I looked at this mornings test and there is nothing to see...so again I took another. Nothing...so it was obvs some evap or something...I wish I had some self control!!! We'll see but having a bfn has me convinced I'm out, even though I know that's ridiculous! X
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